Gentle words from me to you, to help you love yourself. 

Love Notes to My Clients

A masculine presenting person of color sits on a red metal park bench, facing the viewer. They have a gray afro, an undercut, and gray facial hair. They are wearing bright red glasses, a tie-dyed shirt and pants, and black sneakers. They sit comfortably, with legs stacked up on the armrests and seat of the bench, and their own arms rest on each leg.

Were you aware that there is a specific timeline that dictates when you’re supposed to come out? Actually, there’s not. You are not late, behind, or delayed. It’s hard, though, right? In the incarnation of yourself that you left behind you had what you thought was security (maybe even a marriage). But you felt compelled to be true to yourself […]

April 7, 2022

Dear “Late Bloomer”

Two feminine presenting partners stand together in the middle of a room, with backs to the viewer, as they smile at each other, noses almost touching. The partner with shoulder-length blonde hair stands on the right with their arms wrapped around their partner's waist. The partner on the left has dark, shaved hair, and holds herself in a standing position by wrapping her right arm around her partner's shoulders.

What Your Partner Wishes You Knew: How much they still desire you yet they don’t want to put an additional burden on you. It makes them feel selfish to ask for physical affection. How unfair they think it is that this has happened to you both. Sometimes they can’t sleep because they’re so worried about […]

April 7, 2022

Dear Couple Navigating Intimacy & Chronic Illness